Hey, Mama!
I see you—feeling like the weight of the world is on your shoulders, juggling a business that you’re so passionate about and a family that you love fiercely. Some days, it feels like there’s just not enough of you to go around, right? The to-do lists are endless, and the time for yourself? Practically non-existent. It’s a lot, and I want to start this by saying: You are not alone. 💕
So many of us as mompreneurs walk this tightrope between nurturing our businesses and pouring into our families, all while trying to keep ourselves sane in the process. And while it can be so fulfilling, it can also feel overwhelming. Maybe today is one of those days for you. If it is, I want to wrap you in a big virtual hug and remind you of one simple, powerful truth: you don’t have to carry it all alone.
Let’s talk about finding strength in God when life feels like too much—when business deadlines are looming, the kids need your attention, and the weight of it all is pressing down hard. There is rest, mama. There is strength waiting for you, and it’s found in God. Let’s dive into that together.
Acknowledging the Overwhelm
First off, I want to validate your feelings. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed. It’s okay to admit that you’re exhausted, drained, or even feeling a little defeated. Being a mompreneur is not an easy journey. You’re trying to grow a business that allows you to provide for your family, fulfill your purpose, and make an impact. And at the same time, you’re raising children, running a household, and keeping everything else afloat.
There’s a lot of pressure in both worlds, and sometimes, it feels like no matter how much you give, it’s never enough. You may feel guilt when you spend too much time on your business, and you may feel guilt when you spend too much time with your family and your business isn’t getting the attention it needs. That constant tug-of-war? I get it. 💕
But here’s the thing, mama: God never intended for you to carry all of this on your own. Yes, He gave you those dreams and talents. Yes, He entrusted you with your business and your family. But He also wants to be right there in the middle of it with you, giving you strength when yours feels like it’s running out.
Finding Strength in God
God is our source of strength—especially when we feel weak and overwhelmed. He’s not distant or removed from the everyday challenges you face; He’s right there, ready to step in and provide the peace, wisdom, and rest that you so deeply need. The beautiful part of this is that we don’t have to be “strong enough” on our own. We’re allowed to lean into His strength when we’re feeling weak.
Take a deep breath for a moment and think about this: You’re not expected to have it all together every second of every day. The overwhelm you feel isn’t a reflection of your failure; it’s a call to surrender and let God step in. 💕
When you feel like you’ve reached your limit, that’s the perfect time to pause and invite God into the overwhelm. Here’s how you can find strength in Him:
1. Surrender the Burden
Sometimes, we hold on so tightly to the pressure to do it all that we forget we don’t have to. God asks us to release our burdens to Him. This doesn’t mean we give up, but rather, we acknowledge that we need His help. It’s in the act of surrendering that we make space for His strength to carry us through. Let go of the notion that you have to be perfect in both your business and your family. Surrender the weight, and trust that God will give you the strength to do what truly matters today.
2. Invite God into Your Business
Yes, your business is important to God, too. Invite Him into every aspect of it—the goals, the deadlines, the uncertainties, and the challenges. Pray over your business just as you pray over your family. God cares about your success, and He wants to guide you. Ask Him for wisdom in decision-making, for peace when things feel uncertain, and for favor as you move forward. When you place your business in His hands, you release the need to control every outcome and trust that He is working for your good.
3. Embrace God’s Peace
One of the greatest gifts we receive from God is peace. Not just any peace—His peace. A peace that surpasses understanding. When you feel overwhelmed by the demands of business and family life, take a moment to quiet your mind and invite God’s peace into your heart. He doesn’t promise that every challenge will disappear overnight, but He does promise to give us peace in the midst of the storm. Embrace that peace, knowing that God’s got this.
4. Lean on God’s Strength in Parenting
Being a mom is one of the hardest yet most rewarding jobs there is. But even here, God wants to be your strength. When you feel like you’ve given all you can to your children and there’s nothing left, lean into His grace. Let Him remind you that you are doing an incredible job and that your love and effort are more than enough. You don’t have to be a perfect mom to be a great one. God’s grace fills in where our human strength falls short.
Practical Steps to Help When You’re Overwhelmed
While leaning into God is foundational, there are also some practical steps you can take when business and family life start to feel overwhelming.
1. Simplify Your Priorities
Write down what truly matters. Both in your business and your family life, identify the non-negotiables and let go of the rest. Simplifying your priorities allows you to focus on what’s truly important without getting bogged down in the noise.
2. Delegate Where You Can
Mama, you don’t have to do it all. If you can, delegate tasks in both your business and home life. Whether that’s hiring help for your business, asking family members to chip in more at home, or outsourcing where possible—delegation can free up mental and physical energy for you.
3. Create a Routine That Honors Rest
In the hustle of business and family, it’s easy to forget about rest. But rest isn’t just a luxury—it’s a necessity. Schedule time for rest and self-care, and honor that time as sacred. This could be as simple as waking up early for quiet time with God or setting aside an afternoon for a family walk.
Trusting God with the Outcome
At the end of the day, mama, it all comes down to trust. Trusting that God will help you balance it all, trusting that His strength is more than enough, and trusting that He is working behind the scenes for your good. There is so much beauty in surrendering the outcomes of both your business and family to Him. He knows the desires of your heart, and He knows the dreams He’s placed inside of you. Trust that He will carry you through even when the path seems overwhelming.
You Are Doing Amazing 💕
Before I close, I want to remind you of something: You are doing an amazing job. Even on the days when it feels like nothing is going right, even when you feel pulled in a million directions—you are showing up, and that is enough. God sees your heart, and He’s proud of you for the way you love and lead both your family and your business.
Take a moment to breathe, mama. You don’t have to do this on your own. Let God be your strength today and always.
Cheering you on always,
Mal 💕
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