Somewhere along the way, moms were sold a very exhausting lie—that we could (and should) “have it all.” The perfect career. The spotless house. The thriving kids. The well-balanced marriage. The self-care routine. The meal-prepped fridge. And somehow, do it all without looking exhausted.
But here’s the truth, mama: having it all doesn’t mean doing it all. And honestly? “All” isn’t even what we really want.
Redefining What “Having It All” Really Means
1️⃣ You Get to Decide What “All” Looks Like – Culture might tell you success is a Pinterest-perfect life, but God reminds us that true success is faithfulness—loving our families well, showing up with grace, and leaning on Him in every season.
2️⃣ Balance is a Myth—Priorities Are the Answer – You can’t give 100% to everything all the time. Some days, your kids need more of you. Other days, work takes priority. And some days, your priority is just getting a shower. That doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re human.
3️⃣ Rest is Just as Important as Hustle – You weren’t created to go, go, go without pause. A full life isn’t about how much you can cram into your schedule—it’s about the joy, peace, and purpose you find in the moments you choose to hold sacred.
How to Embrace Your Own Version of “Having It All”
- Stop Comparing Your Life to Someone Else’s Highlight Reel – Social media shows the best moments, not the messy in-between. Your “all” doesn’t have to look like hers.
- Focus on What Actually Matters – What brings you joy? What makes your family thrive? Let that guide your decisions.
- Give Yourself Permission to Let Things Go – The laundry can wait. The Pinterest-worthy birthday party isn’t required. You don’t have to do everything to be a good mom.
You Already Have What Matters Most
Mama, the goal isn’t to “have it all” the way the world defines it. The goal is to have what matters—love, faith, joy, and the ability to be present in the life you’re building.
And guess what? You already have that.
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